"The people who believe in me could not help me. The people who could help me did not believe in me". I extracted the above from a touching story I read and it got me thinking how essential it is to define our relationships. Defining your relationships affords you the leverage to give value and to extract value in return from every relationship.

My Mama warned me never to mistake popularity for acceptance nor activity for purpose. She once pointed me to a rocking chair to show me that motion is not the same as movement. With the benefit of hindsight, my perception of life is changing with age. Reflections.

My friend asked me when is the best time to make critical decisions. I’m not sure I have the accurate answer but I know that the best time to make a life impacting decision is not when you are very happy, neither is it when you are very sad. Read that again.