It was Dale Carnegie, in his book - How to win Friends and influence People - who said that "to get a man's attention, find out what interests him and what catches his enthusiasm." Men may be indifferent but women do not oberlook it when you fail to celebrate them.
Have you ever been lethargic that you don't even feel like doing what you like doing most? Nothing can be more real, but you know what? Keep going; don't stop.
Midlife crisis is a moment of self-reflection in your middle age when you possibly question the choices you have made. It can result in self doubt and dramatic lifestyle changes capable of having significant impact on your emotional being and critical life decisions.
You are better informed if you know that not all stress is negative. Some are positive and they motivate you to accomplish difficult tasks, that is eustress. The ones that strain you and make you anxious to the point of danger is called distress.
I may not know what it was called in other local languages during the days of our grandparents but I know that what we call tattoo today is an ancient…
Don’t wait till your old age before you start learning how to balance life. Every aspect of life counts. The greatest achievers are those who find themselves at the top of the pyramid of Abraham Maslow’s Motivational Theory. Self actualisation speaks to a purpose-driven life, it speaks to the pursuit of meaning, creativity, personal growth and inner joy. You may find some of these in your day job today but definitely not all.
Strategic thinking is the ability to analyse complex situations, anticipate future challenges and opportunities, plan proactively to surmount any identified challenge and harness the opportunities therein.
In summary, success today does not guarantee success tomorrow. You have to be intentional. Accountants count net worth in figures. Sometimes they add goodwill. If you want to count your net worth, don't forget to balance your scorecard. Money does not answer everything.
If you achieved your goals in 2025, be grateful. If you had unmet expectations, be grateful. If you rode through the storms like me in what looks like a difficult year, still be grateful. My charge to you in 2026 - live life from the positive side. Be grateful.
Akin is an inspirational writer and author. He has published three books. He is a teacher and trainer. Through his daily teachings, he has helped a lot of people discover their potential.
